tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1151798681951781536.post8244935709262611634..comments2024-01-31T09:14:00.523+00:00Comments on sustainablemum: Experiencessustainablemumhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099701194160334671noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1151798681951781536.post-56734243725075389312014-08-09T07:33:37.105+01:002014-08-09T07:33:37.105+01:00Unlike Emma I am urging a little caution here! I ...Unlike Emma I am urging a little caution here! I wonder what you hope to gain from getting back in touch? It might be that she would be pleased to hear from you but might it also be that had she wanted to keep in touch she would have done so? A friendship takes two people to sustain it and sometimes friends come into our lives for a reason, some for a season and some for life. Maybe your friend was just a "season" friend. It is impossible to keep up with all the friends we make during a lifetime and I too sometimes wonder whatever happened to so and so. I guess what I am saying here is that it may be well to think about what you want from getting back in touch and what the outcome might be - either you will feel sad that she doesn't want to be in touch for some reason - maybe she has moved on and you would serve as a reminder of a period in her life she would prefer to leave behind, or she might of course be thrilled to hear from you and you can take up where you left off and become close friends again. It is none of my business what you decide of course but I would just counsel your taking some thought as to why you might want to get in touch and what the outcomes might be before you take the plunge. Good luck!Marigold Jamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02895195019277206960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1151798681951781536.post-30331865702978055052014-08-08T23:02:34.009+01:002014-08-08T23:02:34.009+01:00Forgot to add that I loved this post x Forgot to add that I loved this post x Sandra Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16260644073051470011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1151798681951781536.post-52390464629179678842014-08-08T23:01:19.088+01:002014-08-08T23:01:19.088+01:00Have courage and make contact. Friendships take a...Have courage and make contact. Friendships take all sorts if twists and turns and yes we fail and sometimes cause hurt but extending a hand of friendship is a very cathartic and freeing experience, the last thing you want to be dealing with is the , "if only ..."<br /><br />Sending you a hug if encouragement x Sandra Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16260644073051470011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1151798681951781536.post-16238888807272584542014-08-08T12:32:19.851+01:002014-08-08T12:32:19.851+01:00The worse she can do is not reply to your contact!...The worse she can do is not reply to your contact! I'd give it a try, in fact you have inspired me...I lost contact with the girl with whom I house shared at uni (strangly enough I have kept in touch with the guy who shared with us despite him moving to South Africa). I looked her up on the internet and it she is running a design company...I'm going to email her now!!<br />Wishing you luck...EMMAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02900165967124695510noreply@blogger.com